Sunday, February 26, 2012

adieus bff!



and so we said our goodbyes..

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Saturday, February 18, 2012

At the Singapore Airshow

 kudos to the bombardier aerospace guys of course!

 F16 spot any cute pilots yet??


 ta-dah! bombardier 'chalet' they call it ^_^

 right next to the real deal!


 aaah and enjoying the show under the shade...

 private tours to the learjet and global express





meow >*_*<

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Sunday, February 12, 2012

being wiser

am i none the wiser now? probably.. probably not the way god decreed all mankind but good enough to survive in my tiny realm of realism. so many things have happened lately that i wouldn't know how to put it to words without offending some people. it's like a snow blizzard which you couldn't have known better but keeps coming. this lush icy white settling down like a blanket and you gingerly step on it trying not to spoil mother nature's attempt at perfection. and then there's anger. the way movies depict the anger at how things spiral out of control or the classic 'why me of all people' syndrome. does everyone have such moments? I'm not too sure. in most cases when there's anger there's surely the blame game. I take a look at myself and where i point my finger. do i blame my parents for bringing me up the way i am? for subconsciously overindulging my siblings? do i say it's their fault for nurturing me or my brothers the way we are? are they none the wiser too then? probably.

of course all these thoughts are like an immune system set into motion once the road becomes bumpy. the body's auto defense mechanism. finding excuses on what went wrong. i won't deny too that rarely do i admit i am at fault. pride is such a hard fall. yet sometimes I wonder how difficult it is to display empathy. Putting yourself in someone else's shoes. imagining you are at the receiving end. which is why i hate it when people assume that i don't know any better. just because i'm not living their lives. granted i am not. fine. then stop with the self pity if you can't even be bothered with any explanation. the world doesn't need another hero anyway.

it's the same when you criticise. others that is. you forget that we are all made different and being different doesn't mean you are undeserving. i forget myself sometimes. that we shouldn't belittle those who gave as much as i did who laughed as much i did and breathed as much as i did. and you know having gone through life as it is now it's quite difficult not to form an opinionated view on certain things and i respect that. i get that. do you?


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