sly after 2 years...
still the same lo!!! =p
old chums of more than 10 yrs! think i got too hyper today meeting up with everyone...nearly lost my voice talking! humph kena suan by the photographer mr bobby chan.. said i shld turn on the mute mode sometimes to attract the right guys *bleah* that person shld just like me for who i am ^_^ boisterous or not keke
merry blessed day!
i'm getting fat binging on royce! anyway in a few short hours i'll be heading to turkey and spending the start of a new year on foreign land ;p not much time for reflection on the past year but maybe when age catches up you don't mind all the countdowns and festivities. you're not really bought over by the commercialised season. you've always known there's more to life than it is. you've been searching to fulfill some prophecies all along but up to this point you stop for a moment. you pause and finally accept it all. because you're past caring. i do hope in a good way tho'. see you in 2008!
spreading the holiday cheer
rock on jeslyn! you really made my day LOL
i think the elf on the left totally has all the groove and moves duncha think? ;p
merry xmas y'all! enjoy....
company din din
our xmas dinner was at north border rochester park...a few peeps were missing but i'm mighty glad things didn't get too dry and even our commando kristian turned more fun after a few glasses of wine it's that time of the year again where everyone gets sentimental into the xmas mood and threw caution to the wind my boss is leaving and we have new colleagues in the brand new 2008 and imminent changes which i have no control over. should i be glad or can i only wish for the best? cheerios bring it on...
obituary
scenario D
this is only applicable for ladies because well things are really not that complicated if you're a guy and totally have the hots for a girl ;p Okay so you have a crush on this guy that you've met, do you
- get lost in his eyes and tingle everytime he's near?
- see him as an ideal marriage partner thereafter compare all guys to him?
- realise it's hormones acting up but is glad to have something to look forward to?
if you chose 1, and are still stuck in limbo then i guess you're probably hoping to be casted for the role of cinderella next. most of the time you're daydreaming and waiting for your prince charming to appear. you are most probably very emo and irrational when faced with love but once you've stepped into it there's no way to escape. gal don't get used to the hurt.
if you chose 2, you've most probably closed your heart up and given the key up to someone long ago. it will take a certain person to break through that barrier but only if you're willing to let him. you can't seem to get comfortable with guys because you sincerely believe that there can only be one for you. you have a rigid mindset on love and the expectations of what it should fulfill. most of the time you fall flat on your face because reality is ever so harsh and a relationship with you is a tiring affair.
if you chose 3, you've not given up on love yet. you are probably the most sane and take life with a pinch of salt. you go with your feelings and dare to take the first step. you understand the process of falling in and out of love but enjoy it anyway whilst it lasts. you take a practical approach to relationships and see no point in wasting time.
Xmas Decor!
not your typical xmas tree!
xiaoqian's wedding =]
da gungho guys in our class...suaning ppl at its best!
dinner was at furama riverfront (near tiananmen? u'd know where if u were a guy ;p) they had a cheesy walk-in with the waiters for the first dish (omg where did they get the music?) emcee's voice was way over-pitched!! other than that lotsa fun as usual catching up everyone else..relive the jc days/jokes!
scenario C
you are not in a relationship for the past 6 months or more. recently, you heard from common friends that your ex got married! do you
- sincerely wish him all the best in your heart?
- ask for more juicy details and check out if the spouse is hotter than you?
- curse a few vulgarities and insist that is a heartless way to end the relationship?
if you chose 1, you are not normal and most probably deluding yourself. otherwise your other half is a very lucky person indeed.
if you chose 2, you are petty and insecure. you are someone who lives for the moment and wants instant gratification. you understand there is no 'happily ever after' and the workings of the world. reality maybe abit hard to swallow but you move on because you realise there is no other way.
if you chose 3, you have yet to let go and he/she probably still has a space in your heart. you fail to comprehend 'love till death do us part' and scorn at other happy couples. you are most probably stubborn and will strive to live better so as to prove others wrong.
aren't we all vindictive in nature? who are we kidding ourselves? no one person is able to stay unaffected without a bitter aftertaste. it's just a matter of time healing all wounds. plus i never said i was gracious in the first place.
scenario B
you are not attached but is attracted to someone of the opposite sex who is happily committed in a relationship. do you
- continue to pursue that someone aggressively, demonstrating your love is stronger than his/her other half?
- watch him/her from afar and is glad of any opportunities that bring the two of you closer together?
- would not even consider that person as an option in the first place?
if you chose 1, congrats! you are a true romantic because you sincerely believe love will prevail all. but this means that you have no qualms about being a home wrecker nor an adulterer. you think love is an easy game which can be manipulated so using that as an excuse, you can just as easily hook up someone as you could drop another in a second.
if you chose 2, you are most probably passive and easily believe that love is a fairytale which happens for a reason. you have alot of expectations on the other half but do not know how to go down the path to the one that matters. therefore you are always looking out for the right timing right mood right place before you make a move. however, this could also mean you are hypocritical waiting for an opportune time to win some love back or that you may never get to work things out at all in the end.
if you chose 3, i have the most respect for you. simply because you are someone with strict moral grounds and understand the responsibilities that go along in a relationship. the set of values ingrained in you probably makes you a very loyal lover as well. you are self righteous and see everything in only black and white. but the lack of grey areas in your life probably means you are quite a difficult person to get along with and can't empathise with your other half most of the time.
true? n_n
scenario A
you are happily attached. someone of the opposite sex is attracted to you and lets you know his/her intentions. do you
- reject that person's advances, let him/her know of your commitment towards your other half and start avoiding him/her all together?
- show no response and continue to ignore his/her advances?
- enjoy the attention but still maintain you are faithful to your other half?
if you chose 1, you are most probably female and needs all the emotional security you could get from your other half. you do not understand why it is so difficult reject someone else, thereby jeopardising whatever friendship/work relation the person may have with your other half. you believe in a 1-to-1 relationship and would not stand for any 3rd party in your heart. you need reassurance constantly and have absolute commitment in your other half.
if you chose 2, you are most probably male and think with your anatomy because you believe the mind can resist all temptations. you are basically a nice guy who do not wish offend anyone in particular. you think the best solution is ignoring the problem not solving it but never once considered the implications of such action. unbeknownst to you, the Y chromosomes in guys usually make them perceive no response as 'no hope' and thereby are more rational in nature. girls, with only X chromosomes, usually perceive silence as 'at least he didn't reject me' kind-of-response, read into ever little thing thereafter and is ever grasping on to a glimmer of hope.
if you chose 3, you are most probably egoistic and need all the love you can get. you have no expectations of your current relationship and are lip-synching most of your promises to your other half. in other words, you do not practise what you preach because your actions show otherwise. you should never commit yourself to a relationship. ok but who am i to tell you that?
i know! i'm simply overgeneralising the whole situation here by putting your responses into stereotyped answers. ^_^ but maaan i am psycho-analysing people! i can draft up horoscope compatabilities, judge you with the quizzes you took and categorise you into type A or B personalities! warning: you have just been profiled by me! hhaha
still the same lo!!! =p
old chums of more than 10 yrs! think i got too hyper today meeting up with everyone...nearly lost my voice talking! humph kena suan by the photographer mr bobby chan.. said i shld turn on the mute mode sometimes to attract the right guys *bleah* that person shld just like me for who i am ^_^ boisterous or not keke
rock on jeslyn! you really made my day LOL
i think the elf on the left totally has all the groove and moves duncha think? ;p
our xmas dinner was at north border rochester park...a few peeps were missing but i'm mighty glad things didn't get too dry and even our commando kristian turned more fun after a few glasses of wine it's that time of the year again where everyone gets sentimental into the xmas mood and threw caution to the wind my boss is leaving and we have new colleagues in the brand new 2008 and imminent changes which i have no control over. should i be glad or can i only wish for the best? cheerios bring it on...
da gungho guys in our class...suaning ppl at its best!
dinner was at furama riverfront (near tiananmen? u'd know where if u were a guy ;p) they had a cheesy walk-in with the waiters for the first dish (omg where did they get the music?) emcee's voice was way over-pitched!! other than that lotsa fun as usual catching up everyone else..relive the jc days/jokes!
whatever makes me happy
