scenario A
you are happily attached. someone of the opposite sex is attracted to you and lets you know his/her intentions. do you
- reject that person's advances, let him/her know of your commitment towards your other half and start avoiding him/her all together?
- show no response and continue to ignore his/her advances?
- enjoy the attention but still maintain you are faithful to your other half?
if you chose 1, you are most probably female and needs all the emotional security you could get from your other half. you do not understand why it is so difficult reject someone else, thereby jeopardising whatever friendship/work relation the person may have with your other half. you believe in a 1-to-1 relationship and would not stand for any 3rd party in your heart. you need reassurance constantly and have absolute commitment in your other half.
if you chose 2, you are most probably male and think with your anatomy because you believe the mind can resist all temptations. you are basically a nice guy who do not wish offend anyone in particular. you think the best solution is ignoring the problem not solving it but never once considered the implications of such action. unbeknownst to you, the Y chromosomes in guys usually make them perceive no response as 'no hope' and thereby are more rational in nature. girls, with only X chromosomes, usually perceive silence as 'at least he didn't reject me' kind-of-response, read into ever little thing thereafter and is ever grasping on to a glimmer of hope.
if you chose 3, you are most probably egoistic and need all the love you can get. you have no expectations of your current relationship and are lip-synching most of your promises to your other half. in other words, you do not practise what you preach because your actions show otherwise. you should never commit yourself to a relationship. ok but who am i to tell you that?
i know! i'm simply overgeneralising the whole situation here by putting your responses into stereotyped answers. ^_^ but maaan i am psycho-analysing people! i can draft up horoscope compatabilities, judge you with the quizzes you took and categorise you into type A or B personalities! warning: you have just been profiled by me! hhaha
if you chose 2, you are most probably male and think with your anatomy because you believe the mind can resist all temptations. you are basically a nice guy who do not wish offend anyone in particular. you think the best solution is ignoring the problem not solving it but never once considered the implications of such action. unbeknownst to you, the Y chromosomes in guys usually make them perceive no response as 'no hope' and thereby are more rational in nature. girls, with only X chromosomes, usually perceive silence as 'at least he didn't reject me' kind-of-response, read into ever little thing thereafter and is ever grasping on to a glimmer of hope.
if you chose 3, you are most probably egoistic and need all the love you can get. you have no expectations of your current relationship and are lip-synching most of your promises to your other half. in other words, you do not practise what you preach because your actions show otherwise. you should never commit yourself to a relationship. ok but who am i to tell you that?
i know! i'm simply overgeneralising the whole situation here by putting your responses into stereotyped answers. ^_^ but maaan i am psycho-analysing people! i can draft up horoscope compatabilities, judge you with the quizzes you took and categorise you into type A or B personalities! warning: you have just been profiled by me! hhaha
posted by novie @ 9:44 AM
whatever makes me happy
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